Saturday, October 3, 2009

A Call For Educational Reform in America!

Our daughter in second grade came home with an English test which had been graded. One of the questions desperately needs to be amended. It reads:

When I run, my _________________ falls off.
a. sneaker
b. eye
c. story

They graded it as if "a" was the only answer. James looked at it and started to laugh. He showed it to me and we both agreed that this definitely wasn't as straight forward of an answer as the teacher supposed. We believe that the answer a. or b. would be an acceptable one. Given an eye would more correctly fall out than off, but more or less it's the same thing. Ah, some of the things you get a kick out of when you have a monocular child. We were just discussing a primary song that they sing in our church called My Heavenly Father Loves Me. The choir just sang it in General Conference this morning and it's one of my very favourites. It's all about the beautiful world the Lord has given us and our wonderful bodies. The opening line of the second verse states "He gave me my eyes that I might see the colour of butterfly wings". We once again laughed and taught Gracie that it's okay if she sings "eye" rather than "eyes" but then there isn't enough room to add "Mr. Craig gave me my other one". Yes, we're full of one eyed jokes in our family. Don't worry we deliver them in a way Gracie finds hilarious. I'm not sure that they'd always be so funny. I guess like all things it depends on who says them and the spirit in which they're delivered. If she wasn't having part in the fun we'd all stop.

On another note Gracie had her 14th EUA yesterday. Just her dad took her this time. All looks really well. Dr. G. wishes that the larger tumor in the left eye looked more flat than it does, but we may not get that. This may be as good as it gets. He couldn't tell the difference between yesterdays pictures and last months pictures. In his words "We're nearing the end" of the laser treatments. Things actually look so good that she doesn't need to go back for another appointment until December! It seems that Gracie recovered from her anesthetic better than she ever has before and by the time James was called back to the recovery room she was stating that she was ready to go.

When Gracie goes for her next EUA she'll be going with her new baby brother! Yes, we're having another baby. James and I have both been genetically cleared for the RB1 mutation that Gracie has (which is the cause of her RB) but experience has shown geneticists that even when the parents don't test positive for the mutation there is a 5-7% chance of having another child with RB. It's due to a mosaic form of the mutation in which not all, or even most of your genes carry the mutation but more than one do. We know for certain that either the egg which created Gracie or the sperm which created Gracie had this mutation. So there is a small possibility that James or I carry more than one affected egg or sperm. For this risk our new baby has to undergo testing for RB until we can determine that he is negative for the same mutation Gracie has. We had the option to perform amniocentesis and run the genetic tests in the prenatal period but we decided not to take even the small risk that this posed for the fetus. When we explained this to Gracie's geneticist she said that this was the same decision that most families come to who decide that they wouldn't terminate the pregnancy regardless of the outcome. We will be drawing blood on this baby at the December appointment to send to Toronto for the genetic testing. Toronto has the absolute best RB testing lab in the world. In the first couple of days after the baby is born he's seeing our pediatric opthalmologist here just in the clinic to rule out any tumors that would be an immediate threat. At the December appointment in Houston (when his genetic tests will be drawn) he will also undergo an EUA so that Dr. G can 100% confirm that there are no tumors on the retinas. After that we should have his genetic tests back in a couple months and he won't be required to do any further testing for RB. Of course any child should routinely see an optometrist trained to do pediatric exams including retinal exams with a dilated pupil, this isn't only looking for sporadic cases of RB but also for a numerous host of other eye conditions where early detection is critical. And oh yes, although James and I have this 5-7% risk cousins and aunts and uncles are still in the clear. So don't worry you don't need to all run out and test your kids.

Stephanie


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

You guys are so funny! THey do say laughter is the best medicine.

So you are saying that you are 8-9months pregnant and will have the baby before December?? CONGRATs! How exciting for oyu all!
Ortensia

Travis and Mardi said...

It's funny you mentioned that song today because I actually thought of Gracie as it was sung. I love that one too! There are probably several Primary songs at least that may require some tweaking to fit. I find the test question really quite funny, even without throwing in the monocular vision issue (but that makes it better). Best wishes to you all in the coming month or two with the new baby. We'll be excited to hear!
Love,
Mardi

ShawLove said...

lol on paragraph #1.
Yay!!! on paragraph #2

I think her Bday coming up?

=)